By Matt Naber
Nov. 27, 2013
Jokes about my last name aside, I’m actually a fan of Mr. Rogers.
His advice for explaining the scary things in the news to children is golden:
“When I was a boy I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”
Car wrecks, drug busts, human smuggling, explosions and more “bad news” were a common occurrence during my time as editor of The Progress. It was scary to think about, to write about and to witness.
But there were always people helping.
A car would wreck and a victim would be screaming in pain on the side of the road. But EMS crews were there. I usually wore sunglasses during these, even when it wasn’t sunny, so that nobody could see my reaction.
Radioactive toxic waste was spewing from waste haulers in violation of state law. But a multitude of local organizations could be found working to make this a nicer place to live.
A man was murdered in broad daylight, but the killer was caught the next day. A flood broke out on the same day, placing much of the area underwater. But word got out fast, emergency crews and locals were prepared, and everything turned out okay.
Housing is so expensive and impossible to find that people are living in tents year-round. But efforts are being made to bring more housing to the area.
The “helpers” are so good at what they do that the only way to know something happened is to either have been there, or to read about it in the news.
I didn’t like reporting on other people’s misery, but it was essential.
I hoped that getting the word out that wrecks have increased by astronomical amounts would encourage drivers to drive safely.
I wanted people to be disturbed by what they read in the news – the deaths, the crimes, and the drugs. There are bad things happening in our own back yard, but nothing can be done about it unless people know it’s happening.
But that doesn’t make the world a bad place nor does it make South Texas a bad place to live. There are helpers everywhere, and it’s not just local law enforcement working to make things better.
I don’t want to offend anyone by leaving someone out, but there are groups of people working to make the area a beautiful place to live, preserving the local history for future generations, donating massive amounts of money to improve education and quality of life, and so many more are just trying to do something, anything, to make a better tomorrow.
These were my “happy stories” for the week. They kept me sane on the weeks when my iPad was bursting with stories straight out of a grind-house horror movie. But most importantly, they gave me hope.
It’s easy to stay at home, turn on, tune in, and drop out – to be completely oblivious to the good, the bad, and the ugly happening right here.
And now for the ugly part – I’m leaving, but it wasn’t an easy decision to make.
My last day is Wednesday, then I’ll spend Thanksgiving with my friends in Seguin before moving back to Wyoming. I’m thankful to say goodbye to the heat and the scorpions, but the people and their stories were what kept me here and are what I’ll remember when I think about South Texas.
So while I’m back at my usual routine of running for my life from charging bull moose in the backcountry of the Rockies, I hope the next editor and his or her readers continue discussing the issues in the area and the helpers who are trying to make things better.